I'm not 100% sure what you mean by "haze", but my assumption is you're referring to the smoke coming off the wood. If you close off the primary enough you'll effectively stop primary flames on the wood as you said. The result is that the wood "smolders" and releases smoke. This smoke is the fuel for the secondary flames. At this point you've already established the rate at which the volatile gases are being released from the load based on how much you've "charred" the wood so far during the burn. If you were to add more primary air you could possibly lower the stove temperature by sending more air up the chimney, but you'd also be increasing the rate of gas release from the wood by further "charring" it.
Once the primary is fully closed you're at the mercy of the chimney draft because the secondary air inlet is un-regulated. If flue gases increase, draft increases, and you have more air pulled in. So, if you have a large off gassing event that causes a temperature spike and your flue temperature increases you can have a positive feedback loop. This is how you get a run-away stove situation. The more consistent I can be with my loads/timing the more predictable the burn; one of the reasons I don't like burning wood with bark. If it's falling off (which most of it is if the wood is sufficiently dry), then I pull it off. If it doesn't come off easy I just throw it in.
If you feel like the stove is running away from you there are really only have a couple of options.
- Open the by-pass and fully open the primary
- This will feed more air into the stove and thus more air up the chimney. Although, my experience with this is that the flue/STT just continue to climb if you're early on in the burn.
- in addition to the above, open the stove door
- this basically turns the stove into an open fireplace introducing A LOT of cool room air into the stove and up the flue. It's counter-intuitive, but it works. Flue/STT will spike for a bit as the fire rages with the extra air but once enough cool air is introduced (and hot air dumped up the flue) into the system things will start to cool down.
- If you think you have a chimney fire the best option is to open the by-pass, close the primary and toss in a Chimfex stick which should starve the system of oxygen.
I found it interesting you used the phrase "appears calm". The secondaries can get pretty aggressive; although the shallow firebox adds to this visual effect. When I get the "gas grill" effect from the secondary air tubes I usually say to myself, "crap, here we go" because I know I'm in for STT that flirt with 700F.
It's all a learning process, and it's hard to read words online and transfer that to stove control without some hiccups. I've had some spikes close to 800F when I didn't pull the coals to the front and the entire load off-gassed at the same time. I've had other off-gas events where the majority of the door glass has become sooted because the wood was close enough to the door and the entire load off-gassed at once. However, at this point I have a pretty good grasp on controlling the stove (knock-on-wood).