Man, at those outside temps you shouldn't have to load much wood to keep the house warm....confirmed by your house temps being in the 80's.
If the amount of wood you are loading is being dictated solely by your desire of wanting to achieve overnight burns, you are loading loading too much wood and are consuming more than you should be resulting in the over-heating your house.
I'm sure you are happy you achieved longer burns, but it's still not running the way it should be. I don't know if anyone has told you already, but you need to get your draft in check.
It's the driving force behind it's operation and you have a block on the gas pedal and just keep filling the gas tank.