Just reloaded and not a whiff of smoke! I did everything suggested including rolling the wood box over to the stove rather than walking back and forth. So now I am making up a numbered list for reloading: 1) open window 2) open thermostat all the way 3) open the cat bypass 4) shut off the fan 5) crack the door open 6) roll the wood box to the front of the hearth and let the draft get rolling 7) close the damper all the way 8) slowly open the door 9) load er up.
Did I miss anything?
Yes, 9) close the window! 10) place your palm against the window glass. 11) feel the pane.

The biggest thing is getting the stove down to coals which will have little to no smoke in them. These stoves take a long time to coal out without some interaction from the user since the splits on the sides will resemble charred splits for a long time.
With the cold we have now I have no issues with smoke spillage, 40's and 50's I can have some issues.