Guys, I think I have a bad computer.
I was out for a week and the in laws were running the furnace for us. They complained about oddities, fan turning off, etc. I dismissed most of it as user error.
Then we got back. 27-28F outside. House was 65, fan off, furnace unusually full of coals. I loaded more wood up, things seemed normal until it shut off. Sometimes the fan would go off, sometimes the computer, sometimes both, somtimes I'd hear the "beep" of the control power coming back on. This went on all night.
I don't believe it's high temp. I have easily put my hand on the plenum. It's warm, but not hot. 70-ish temp in furnace room.
This morning, 60 in the house because the fan wouldn't stay on. I started messing with the settings, and found out I could turn off and on the control computer with a finger tap... At random. Like it has a loose connection. Somtimes it could go off with no touch from me, sometimes a flip on-off of the switch would get it to come back on, sometimes not. I got all this on video.
I took the face plate off and looked for loose solder points but couldn't find anything obvious. A steady 25v AC across the contacts.
I'm going to ask for a replacement if we can get by until Monday.