I think that we get on the tractor and just want to go without thinking the job through, that can get us in trouble.I don't like to use the tractor itself to pull things out. If it doesn't come up with the FEL, then I try another way. I also read on another thread on TBN not to use the top lid of the grapple to pull things. I have been considering a ballast box, but if something doesn't lift with the stump grinder or BH (when it arrives) on the back of the tractor, I don't have any business trying to lift it. I definitely keep you words about not using the tractor as construction equipment at the front of my mind when using the tractor. The bulk of my work so far has been skidding trees/logs and a few rocks.