acosta2269, most of the wood pros have checked in it seems.
I am not a pro, but this is my second season burning wood.
Just for a reference for you, and surely not to brag...............
I have an Avalon mission wood stove (see pic/link) with a mouse cage type blower on the rear. My house is 1850 sq ft, standard ceilings, 2 story cape cod style with 3 br and 2 full bath, 1 upstairs with 2 full br.
(broken link removed to http://www.warmingtrendsstoves.com/mission_ws.html)
My stove temp (damper slightly closed to prevent over burn) usually stays at an easy 350 to 450 average all day/night burn temp.
At these temps my entire house stays at around 76 to 78 degrees, and easily can go to 80 if I let the stove heat up to about 500 degrees...........this is with my blower on 1/4 turn on (LOW) on a reastat control.
I can honestly say the temps coming off the top of my stove from the blower are so hot at a distance of 2 to 3 feet that it could probably burn your skin easily if you held it more than 1 minute or so.
I think there is something wrong with your operations, but it's really hard to guess, I wished one of these pros lived near you and I bet in a minute they could look at your stove in operation and tell youy exactly what the problem was.
You should feel VERY hot heat coming from that big of a stove, if it's cranking like it should be.
Please do a good check inside your stove to make sure all your bricks etc. are all in the right place.
When you get your stove loaded with wood, and it is really going, do you almost hear a roar from the fire sucking oxygen into the stove and you should see very large rolling flames over the entire fire box, at this time you should be watching very closely the temps of your stove, not to exceed your stoves reccomendations etc.
At this time, you should feel REALLY hot air, I mean so hot it feels like it will burn you, this is when you should make this thing talk to you (and your wife) at a cautious, controlled burn, for the next couple hours, during this time you should be pumping a lot of heat into your whole house.
This may need to be done for several hours to bring your home up to a toasty temp, where walls and everything within your home is now warm, and you and your wife are nice and warm...............then you can sit down and enjoy your stove.
You sometimes have to make that thing honk if it's cold outside, in other words, kick that four barrel in for a few miles and see what happens...................carefully controlled long hot burns produces a very warm house.
I am a firm believer in getting your entire house warm inside first, this includes furniture, walls, all appliances etc, it all has to be warm or your house can never get as warm as it could. The only way to do this it to keep that heat coming, once you reach upper temps. it's much easier to hold that heat.
If you try this and it does not work, then break it down and tell us what parts did not work.
Sorry for the long post............
Robbie