There are some realities to look at. The average cord of hardwood has about 20 million btu per cord if perfectly seasoned. It is not perfectly seasoned in any way if burned the same year it is cut. It would have to be kiln dried for that to happen. You are probably losing 20% for that alone. Giving the average insert a rating of 80% efficient is very generous but for the sake of argument lets be generous. Now you have 12.8 million btu of heat to heat the house in a cord of wood. The stove is fantasy rated at 60,000 /hr. that is with kiln dried wood and lab conditions and not a 24 hour rating that is a peak output at the highest safe temperature for short term use. This brings up the question how long does it take to burn a cord of wood with a 1.2 cu. ft. firebox. I have a free standing stove that happens to be that size and 3 years heating with it so I have a clue about this. If you got 60,000 btu per hour the 12.8 million btu net rating wood it would last slightly less than 9 days and with the firebox size you would have to reload and never let the stove get below 50% full and never stop to clean ashes or burn down coals. This would be a full time job 24/7. I can burn a cord a month if I really stay on top of things but 5 weeks probably closer. In the case of last month with all those brutal days I went through 3/4 cord of wood and 25 packs of bio bricks and eco bricks combined as well. They are handy in the morning or getting the stove up to temp quickly after a burn down and clean out. As far as heat goes when the stove is on the average burn part of the cycle the room the stove is in will be 75 the rest of the first floor is 60 something the second story bed rooms mid to high 50s on a 10 to 20 degree day.
For the 3800 you spent on the too small stove a professional should have done heat loss calculations to tell you how big a stove you needed in the first place rather than you tell him what you like and going with it under the assumption it will probably be ok. If they don't know how and have the software to do it and the software that makes it quick and easy they are not a professional in the heating business. There is hope as there are free calculators online and plenty of good web pages to help determine the infiltration numbers. All you need to do this is a ruler thermometer and internet connection and about 4 hours. The numbers it will spit out will be in btu per hour assuming for the most part oil or gas heat and will be higher than you really need for wood or coal for that matter. You can cross check these by taking the amount of oil you burned or you neighbors did between fillings and multiply that that by 100,000 and divide by the number of hours between a fill up. EX. 175 gallons over 3 weeks with both fills at 10 am.(175 X 100,000) / 504 hours = 34722 btu per hour. Ask a neighbor if need be if they have a similar house how much they burn and how warm they keep their house. If they say something around the example given I would at least double that number to 70,000 to 90,000 btu to get 'stove ratings'.
Making the house tighter is the easiest way to need less heat. The best bang for the buck is 3M interior wind film along with gaskets for exterior wall electrical outlets and switch plates Tight door sweeps and gaskets as a must as well. For the wood you have on hand now I would split it down to nothing bigger than a 2 X 3 or 2 X 4 and store tomorrows wood next the stove as it will have the driest air in the house..
For the 3800 you spent on the too small stove a professional should have done heat loss calculations to tell you how big a stove you needed in the first place rather than you tell him what you like and going with it under the assumption it will probably be ok. If they don't know how and have the software to do it and the software that makes it quick and easy they are not a professional in the heating business. There is hope as there are free calculators online and plenty of good web pages to help determine the infiltration numbers. All you need to do this is a ruler thermometer and internet connection and about 4 hours. The numbers it will spit out will be in btu per hour assuming for the most part oil or gas heat and will be higher than you really need for wood or coal for that matter. You can cross check these by taking the amount of oil you burned or you neighbors did between fillings and multiply that that by 100,000 and divide by the number of hours between a fill up. EX. 175 gallons over 3 weeks with both fills at 10 am.(175 X 100,000) / 504 hours = 34722 btu per hour. Ask a neighbor if need be if they have a similar house how much they burn and how warm they keep their house. If they say something around the example given I would at least double that number to 70,000 to 90,000 btu to get 'stove ratings'.
Making the house tighter is the easiest way to need less heat. The best bang for the buck is 3M interior wind film along with gaskets for exterior wall electrical outlets and switch plates Tight door sweeps and gaskets as a must as well. For the wood you have on hand now I would split it down to nothing bigger than a 2 X 3 or 2 X 4 and store tomorrows wood next the stove as it will have the driest air in the house..