Ok guys I have narrowed down the search.
BK Princess
BK Ashford 30
I would like some comments from people who have the Ashford.
You asked for it, "BK vs. "BK. But that likely still won't stop some of our moderators for admonishing any of us for discussing this forbidden brand, in answering your question, this has happened to me before. At the risk of this being my last post (again), I'll try to give some answers.
Also note that there may be one or two here who've owned both a Princess and an Ashford (webby3650?), but most of us are going on the experience of having owned one, and only reading about the other. I own two Ashford 30.1's, and they're great stoves, but I think I can offer some comparative thoughts based on having run many dozens of cords thru these Ashfords while always watching this forum for comparative information on the other BK models.
The Ashford obviously wins on looks. In fact, I would (and did, for several years) run another inferior stove, before sticking a Princess or King in my living room. But some people don't mind the "fat-bottomed girl" proportions and plain late-1970's sheetmetal styling of these models. They're just not for me.
The Ashford may also win if you're in an environment surrounded by stone or concrete, where nearly all radiated energy will be soaked up by the masonry, and likely conducted to outside or into the earth. In my case, my stoves each sit in a large cooking fireplace, such that any heat coming off the sides or back would be lost. But thanks to the clad over steel with airgap convective design, the Ashford radiates very little heat off the sides or back, instead moving nearly all the heat off those surfaces of the firebox by convection (enormously aided with a blower, if you add it). The only very-radiant surface on these stoves is the front, which is dominated by a huge viewing window.
The Ashford also wins on fireview. BK seems to have gotten the message on all the "black glass" criticism aimed at their older (King and Princess) models, and got more aggressive with the air wash in these newer stoves, such that the glass actually stays pretty clean. You can still get it black in the corners, on a very low burn, but I'd say it stays about 80% clear under all range of burn rates, and goes 100% clear after some time on high. Search these forums for plenty of threads of people talking about using putty knives and razors to scrape thick layers of black creo off the glass of their Princess or King, and make our own decision on whether they're exaggerating or not.
But that said, reports indicate that the Princess may win on other points:
BK lists both fireboxes at 2.9 cubic feet, but those who've viewed both indicate the Princess appears to have more useable space in the firebox. I am not sure if this is real or false perception, again BK lists both at 2.9 cu.ft., but it's worth mentioning.
The Princess has a deeper ash belly, which can let you go longer between clean-outs. I have to shovel my Ashford 30.1's once per week, usually Saturday mornings, burning 2 loads per day all week. It may be possible to go longer on a Princess, but remember that going longer and collecting more ash volume just means less of that 2.9 cu.ft. is left for wood.
The better air wash system on the Ashford has caused some customers to have an issue with clogging their Steelcat combustors, causing some to have to vacuum it off once or twice mid-season. I was one of the first to report this, and learned that the issue was the combination of four factors: 1. aggressive air wash can stir up a bit more fly ash, 2. a very tall chimney, 3. running the stove on wide-open throttle for extended periods, and 4. the small openings on the Steelcat used in the Ashford. BK spec's maximum draft of 0.06" WC, but I was running somewhere around 0.21" on the taller of my two chimneys, roughly 3.5x the maximum spec. I installed a key damper, and as long as I remember to adjust it, I never have clogging issues. But I've never seen reports of Princess cats clogging from this combination of factors.
"The Ashford Smoke Smell". This was a hot topic about two years ago, which I haven't seen much discussed recently. A few Ashford 30.1 customers were reporting a smoke smell coming from their stoves, under certain conditions, and having a lot of trouble finding the source of it. There were all sorts of theories at the time, on the source of it, but it may have been resolved since then. It seems likely it was also related to the more aggressive air wash employed to keep the Ashford's glass clean, creating some localized internal high pressure near the door, but that was only one of several theories at the time. In any case, the Princess has been around many years longer than the Ashford, with no notable history of this smoke smell issue.