The cat contender is the BK Ashford 25 insert. Current drawbacks to this option are lesser flame show, + need for 4 feet of chimney extension to meet minimum of 15' from top of insert. Last con is I can't find a dealer anywhere who has one - would like to check it out before dropping $5.5k on it.Pros are better burn times, more heat control, sticks out onto hearth a bit = semi-flush = more heat, and this one gives me room to insulate my firebox on all sides. And another big pro - safer unit, imo, as thermostat almost ensure no overfiring.
The tube contender is the Quad V. Grand. Cons are tube stove cons, potential dirty glass issues, just barely fits in my firebox, could only insulate the back properly and maybe 1/2" durock on sides. Not sure how much heat is really lost on the sides? Pros = better flame show, better aesthetics imo, I've actually gotten to see one at a dealer and really like it, ACC could actually make reloads easier for g/f if it works properly (e.g. leave primary air where it was, activate ACC and reload, walk away), taller glass window makes it seem much larger imo, even though it's only 10 square inches large.
I'm really stressing out. It's like buying a new car, stick or automatic, while never having tested either and not being able to test them prior to purchase (heck, it's like never even having *ridden* in a car before, just watching vids on youtube and talking to forum members about their driving experiences!!). I don't even know 100% what I want, as I've never heated with wood before so I don't know if my priorities will shift. Then there are the obstacles like fireplace location (great for viewing, not optimal for full house heating), etc, that weigh into it all. Doesn't help that I will have to buy most of my wood and nat. gas is so damn cheap right now.