Unfortunately, there's no good reference for stovetop temperatures on my stove, as it has a convection deck on top, which runs very cool (and variable) due to the air gap between the convection top and the actual firebox. In fact, I had thought the Sirocco was similar, in that regard, but I've never really looked closely at any of the BK 20's.
I drive by cat probe temp and chimney temperature, only. If you have single wall pipe, you'd do well to move that magnetic Midwest thermometer to the pipe, and secure it with a screw thru the center (they fall off at Curie temperature (~350°C). If you have double-wall pipe, that magnetic thermometer is useless to you, you'll want to buy a probe (eg. Condar FlueGard).
And in that vein, there are some things you can do to improve your method:
1. You don't need to wait for the cat probe to reach active to close the bypass. This instruction is aimed at beginners and casual burners, to prevent false starts, but that combustor (especially a brand-new hyper-active one) is ready for light-off way before the probe says active. This is the advice of someone who has more than 100 cords thru cat stoves in the last ten years.
I typically close my bypass when any two of three criteria are met:
1a. Stove pipe probe is well above 500F (or 300F for the one stove wearing an external surface thermometer on single-wall pipe.
1b. Wood load is completely engulfed or charred, no fresh wood easily visible.
1c. The fire is going well enough that experience has taught me we should be fine.
Again, 2 of 3 criteria, no one of these will do alone.
2. Yes, you're supposed to burn on high for 20 minutes to clean the firebox of crud, and bake enough moisture out of the wood that you won't go into a stall on turn-down. But given your astronomical cat probe temperatures, I'd start incrementally working my way down as soon as the probe hit the 3 o'clock position. Note that a quick turn-down on a roaring fire will drive cat temperature even higher, for a period, as the wood is outgassing quickly and you've just starved it of the air required to burn those volatiles before reaching the combustor. This is why you want to work your way down in small increments every 5+ minutes, rather than making a big turn-down all at once.
Again, unless you have a leak somewhere, this issue will resolve itself in a few weeks, as the combustor breaks in.
Others will add more, I am sure. These stoves are very simple to operate, but there are still many tricks we've all learned over the years, that can improve them. For you, again assuming there's no air leak, I think the biggest issue might be the size of the wood you're burning. Might do well to dig the big stuff out of the shed, to mix in with the small, such that you don't have full loads of smaller wood, which can outgas quickly and drive up cat temp.