I've become a fan of the big 20 inch "big blue" filter I'm running with 5 micron pleated paper elements. It has 1" NPT in/out, and even at the end of my yearly filter change interval, the thing still shows less than 2-3 psi max drop at 10 GPM. I was having issues with mineral deposits causing irrigation valves to not close fully prior to installing this, a constant frustration causing me a lot of extra work every summer, but this filter completely resolved that issue. I can see from it's orange color when I remove it, that it's catching a lot of iron which would otherwise end up deposited in my porcelain sinks or in my water softener media, which makes me happy.
Of course, your water tests may show you need more aggressive methods, always go by the test results.
Mind your pressure drops, when choosing your filtration system. You're already losing 8 - 10 psi static pressure, just making it from your well switch in the basement to a second-floor shower head, perhaps another 4 psi to a third-floor. Then in 1/2" pipe at 2.5 gpm you 0.4 psi for each foot of straight line, adding another foot of line equivalence for each elbow. If your shower is at one end of the house and your pump switch at the other, with two floors between them and ten elbows in the path, you could have 60 feet of line equivalence, dropping 24 psi atop the 8 - 10 psi static drop for the lift from basement to 2nd floor shower. Meaning, if your well runs 30 - 50 psi, your shower head could run from wimpy to dry, before even adding filter losses. Even at 40 - 60 psi, it's going to make for some unsatisfying showers and big cold/hot swings when other appliances cycle.
Walk into most older plumbers houses, and you'll be astounded by the size of the plumbing they use for their own stuff.
I ran 1-1/4 into the house from the well, and right up to where I split off in 1" (irrigation) and 3/4" (water softener). Each bathroom or kitchen at any distance from the boiler room is run in 3/4" copper, only splitting off to 1/2" at each individual appliance. It takes longer to get hot water to an appliance, due to the volume of water in the pipe, but I'm able to keep my 2nd floor pressure drops below 15 psi when I'm in the shower and my wife turns on a sink in the same bathroom suite. If we have two or three showers running at the same time, it's no problem if someone flushes a toilet in another part of the house.