Easy Livin’ 3000
Minister of Fire
Nothing great ever happens when people dip their toe in, so going in whole hog is great. If gardening is in your blood, go for it, it'll make you happy. Another benefit will be the effect it'll have on your kids, all sorts of wonderful lessons and values will be imparted. With your time constraints, definitely go for the weather link irrigation system, it'll save you tons of time and effort, then if you want to hand water, it'll be for the cathartic effect it provides, rather than a chore that has to be done. I'd go for a combination of soaker hoses and drip line, which can be reconfigured at will, and you can automate it as much as you like. Just underground plumb a spigot to the end of each bed, and you'll be set.
To save additional time (and improve results), use lots of mulch to minimize the weeding. I collect all the leaves off my lawn with a lawn vac in late fall, and use the chopped leaves as mulch in my beds. Keeps weeds way down, reduces water needs, and greatly improves soil as they break down every season. My lawn vac is my favorite implement.
Check out Mike McGrath's teachings. He has the NPR gardening program on Saturdays, he preaches the benefits of leaf mulch, and he is not mistaken.
I do things the hard way, and love the time outside, but you can definitely do it in way that is far more efficient, time and effort-wise.
When the kids are off to college and you are enjoying an early retirement, you'll have plenty of time to roam your garden leisurely, but by then it'll have produced tons of hyperlocal healthy food, and flowers for the Mrs. Dive in headfirst like you do. You won't regret it. If you have a vision, starting with a plan on paper is optimal, particularly for the irrigation, then you can just execute the layout. I had a small plan I started with year one, it really helped.
To save additional time (and improve results), use lots of mulch to minimize the weeding. I collect all the leaves off my lawn with a lawn vac in late fall, and use the chopped leaves as mulch in my beds. Keeps weeds way down, reduces water needs, and greatly improves soil as they break down every season. My lawn vac is my favorite implement.
Check out Mike McGrath's teachings. He has the NPR gardening program on Saturdays, he preaches the benefits of leaf mulch, and he is not mistaken.
I do things the hard way, and love the time outside, but you can definitely do it in way that is far more efficient, time and effort-wise.
When the kids are off to college and you are enjoying an early retirement, you'll have plenty of time to roam your garden leisurely, but by then it'll have produced tons of hyperlocal healthy food, and flowers for the Mrs. Dive in headfirst like you do. You won't regret it. If you have a vision, starting with a plan on paper is optimal, particularly for the irrigation, then you can just execute the layout. I had a small plan I started with year one, it really helped.