Your two best options as far as I know are:
1. rocket stove heater that's designed to accept vertically fed wood poles (automatic gravity feed).
http://www.permies.com/t/10419/a/3097/RMH 70 deg.jpg
2. propane boat heater like you see on tiny house videos
http://tinyhouseblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/stove.jpg (broken link removed to http://www.dickinsonmarine.com/propane.php)
You might want to have both so you have backup heating. Maybe there's an extreme cold spell or let's say you hurt yourself or get sick and can't feed the stove. You could turn on the gas heater and not have to worry.
Your house R-value will be off the charts using what you described as long as you detail the doors and windows correctly. Most heating dealers can't even comprehend this.
Be sure to read the scoria bag building details used on the Scoria Casita project (it's on our blog). He shows how to stabilize the bags to keep them from shifting.
I'm researching the details now for a blog post. Here's what I've found so far:
Permies.com discussion about gravity feed mass heaters:
http://www.permies.com/t/10419/rocket-stoves/Rocket-stove-slide-burning-foot
Best video so far:
very good stove, just add a chute like the drawing I sent to guide longer logs