You are not alone. These are common situations. Is there a zero-waste organization in your area? If so, ask them via email for updated info.You nailed me, there. It is “wish-cycling”. But I never saw it as a bad thing. Like I said, maybe naive.
That’s the trouble. When recycling started in our area 30 years ago, the trash hauler used to leave a yearly flyer on our can outlining what could and couldn’t be recycled. It would expand a little, over the years. However, it’s been 20 years since I’ve received one of those, and I really have no idea what’s allowed or dis-allowed today.
Yeah... that’s not gonna happen. Maybe you have all the free time to fart around with crap like this, but I do not. Like most folks, I’m at work when such a facility would be open and the manager accessible. I barely find enough time during my few weekend daylight hours to keep ahead of my wood harvesting and splitting. I was outside 30 minutes before sunrise this morning, measuring out the foundation for another wood rack, and hauling out the trailer to go fetch the next round of material. Other than lunch (now), I won’t sit down until an hour or three past dark, tonight.
I suspect that most folks want to do what they can easily do to minimize their impact. That’s where I land. I’m glad there are folks like you to lead the charge, but I won’t have time to join your crusade until I retire!
Who is your waste and recycling hauler and for what area? I'll bug them.