Yeah... about that. He's a quiet kid, who likes to ponder things a while on his own, and then he'll hit you with a question an hour (or three days) later.
So, I'm getting him ready for bed an hour after we're done with the fire talk, and he starts asking all these follow up questions, like what to do if dad's on fire, etc. Then he starts crying, and asking who will take care of him if mommy and daddy die in a fire. Not exactly what I had planned.
I'm sure there will be more questions tomorrow... or ten days from now.
If Dad is on fire . . . Dad would stop, drop to the ground, cover his eyes and roll. What Jr. can do is call 911 if necessary or remind dad to cool burns under cool water. Turn it around so Jr. realizes things will usually be OK and he can be part of the solution.
Mommy and Daddy dying in a fire . . . Turn it around. It is highly unlikely this would happen in the home due to the fact that we have smoke detectors and now we know what to do in case of fire blah blah blah.
It's easy for kids to latch on to different things . . . I remember at that age seeing a story on the evening news about a plane crash. For a long time every time I saw a plane in the sky I was afraid it was going to crash into my house and kill everyone.