... and I told my family we will be doing fire drill training this evening, thanks to Andrew's story. Our son is 5, and it's something I've been meaning to do the last few months. We'll have to wait until the ice melts off the porch roof to actually practice a window escape, but we can discuss plans, outside meeting place, etc.
Any wisdom to share on that subject, Jake?
Actually yeah . . . a couple of thoughts.
As I started reading this (before I even saw my name mentioned) I thought to myself, "Yes. Because of Andrew someone else has taken action to developing good fire safety habits." Stories like this truly make me happy . . . having had to help do body recovery on three young children who died in a fire and having been involved in the after math of another fire that left two children dead . . . trust me . . . no fire scene where folks die is a good scene . . . but when children die . . . it is the absolute worse day.
Thank you for teaching your son right.
Make it a game . . . make it fun . . . at this age your son will listen to you and play the "game." Just be sure to emphasize that he should not wait for you or any other adults to come get him.
Light smoke . . . crawl low and go out the first and main exit to the meeting place and wait for everyone to leave the home. Do not go back inside for people, pets or personal possessions.
Heavy smoke or flames . . . go out the second exit . . . which may be another door depending on the home's lay out or a window. I probably wouldn't practice the window escape -- just talk about it. Truthfully, with working smoke detectors in the home you should have enough time to get out the main exit . . . the problem often is that folks don't have working smoke detectors (1 in 5 don't work -- typically because they've been disabled.)
Speaking of detectors . . . a worthwhile (but a little bit mean) experiment to conduct sometime is to set off the detector in the hallway outside of your son's bedroom and see if he reacts to it. Studies have shown that some children do not respond to the particular pitch and tone of some smoke detectors and can sleep right through the alarm. Newer alarms coming out have a different, alternating alarm which may work better (your home may already have these) . . . alarms that speak seem to work even better with young children (again, your home may have these as well).
Knowing how to dial 911 and giving out the address is a good thing to learn. There are many stories -- including here -- where a young child dialed 911 (typically on a medical emergency) and a parent or grandparent was helped thanks to that child not panicking and knowing what to do.
And then of course . . . if your clothes are on fire . . . stop, drop to the ground, cover your face and roll . . . or if your clothes are on fire . . . don't attempt to put them on.