OK, based upon your numbers...
I need around 35,000 BTUs per hour to heat my house on average. Using your number, I will need 3 cords of wood a month to heat my house?
Using Stevens Point climate data, and assuming your 35k BTU number is for your coldest month (Jan = 1614 HDD), your 3 cords per month would extrapolate to 15.6 cords per average (8385 annual HDD) year. That's a metric buttload of wood, but not nearly as bad as assuming you'll be at 3 cords per month x 9 months.
I process a lot of wood, for my two woodstoves. Possibly more than any two or three average stove-burning members of this forum, but thanks to augmenting my wood heat with oil heat, I've never exceeded ten cords burned in a year. It can be real tough to fell, buck, haul, split, stack, move, and load that amount of wood, if you have any other demands on your time (eg. family), especially in those first few years when you're trying to collect maybe double your usage rate, to build a stockpile of seasoned wood.
Every situation is different, and as I said, I found a way to deal with my demand issue. Others might have splurged for even bigger wood-processing equipment than I own, or found other ways to get their processing efficiency up, but it's real tough to beat what I have without spending some big money.
I'd go into this with the mentality that any reduction of your heating costs beyond one-third of your equipment investment is a success. That way, you can be satisfied with a 3-year amortization your your investment, and not want to kill yourself with wood processing, trying to feed the beast. It may be necessary to continue using some form of traditional heat, to keep the wood demand within your personal limits.