Addressing the issue of a big BTU boiler idling and loading unit. I have addressed this issue with regard to the Froling FHG L50 (170,000 btuh), and you may find some helpful info in reviewing this:
https://www.hearth.com/talk/threads/froling-fhg-l-50-install.73268/
The "simple" fix in my case was two-fold:
1) replumbing to provide that the boiler charge the tank directly (boiler supply to top of tank, boiler return from bottom of tank) and for the system to draw from the tank directly (top of tank to system, system return to middle of tank). The boiler never supplies the system directly, and the system never returns warm water to the boiler directly. In the DP situation this resulted in assuring that the coldest water from the bottom of tank always was being returned to the boiler via the loading unit, which also resulted in a delta-T of 30F or greater.
2) tuning the flows in the zones on the system to result in a difference between system supply/return of at least 20F. Before the tuning, this temp difference at times was as little as 10F.
A middle of tank sensor is the guide point for determining boiler firing. Based on the 1600 gallon tank, if at least a temp difference of 30F between middle and bottom of tank and assuming average system draw during the burn cycle, the boiler can take a full wood load and burn to completion without idling. Because non-technical staff frequently fires the boiler, and to insure virtually no idling possibility, the actual staff guide point is 50F.
This works in DP's case in part because the tank is large enough and the plumbing arrangement (return of warm system water to middle of tank) insure little or no mixing of the return water into the bottom half of the tank, therefore always keeping the coldest water available for boiler return. It also works because the tank is of a size that provides both reasonable storage capacity and buffer capacity. The Froling manual properly advises not to fire the boiler if there isn't sufficient thermal storage (buffer) available to take the btu output.
There are complications depending on particular system designs that may make it more or less difficult to solve the issue. But a basic fact is that the the LK810 is spec'd at maximum flow of about 12 gpm, System design may result in lesser flow. And at 12 gpm, the maximum btu's that can be moved are limited: 120,000 at delta-T=20F; 180,000 at 30F, etc. If this output cannot be accepted by the storage/system, idling will result. Some solutions, therefore, are as described above which worked, and may also include, among others:
1) taking care in firing the boiler to insure that the wood load is well burned down as delta-T closes, therefore btu output is substantially less than than maximum, and flow of 12 gpm moves all btu output.
2) limiting wood loads in the boiler, and in this regard weighed wood burns can be quite helpful
3) not attempting to charge storage to a high temp point without care to insure that the boiler is not over loaded, and again, weighed wood burns can be quite helpful
4) adding a parallel circulator to the LK810 which cuts in only at high temperature to increase flow, thereby increasing btu capacity (still need system demand/storage to accept the btu's)
A person might conclude, as I did at one time, that the LK810 is undersized for a large btu output boiler. But I think the issue is more related to system design, demand characteristics of the system, insufficient buffer/storage capacity, over sizing the boiler for the system, over loading the boiler based on system design and/or demand, failure to appreciate or understand boiler btu output as related to size of wood load, or boiler output as related to stage of the burn.
With the changes made in the DP system, I now feel the LK810 is satisfactorily sized for large btu output boilers, but that the system needs to be designed accordingly. System design is not necessarily easy or simple, there are many variables, only one of which is the LK810, and it is necessary to understand how the entire system will operate, whether or not the LK810 is part of the system.