"All these years" started back in the '70s. My BIL's VC Resolute III, built in '78, has a thermostat. Maybe a lot of other makers these days don't bother with a thermo is because it's really not that big a deal to many folks. The only benefit that would be usable to me is that the thermo would open up at the end and burn down the coals faster, keeping the stove top a little hotter and making more room sooner for a full reload. But the coals are usually pretty low if I just let it go, and I can just run a poker through the ashes and drop them through the grate for more room. I don't really need a supposedly more even heat output since the temp in the house doesn't seem to vary by more than a few degrees over a 10-12 hour run for my little 1.5 cu.ft. Keystone in average winter temps here..and my house isn't insulated or sealed all that well.
Hey, yeah...
I wish I knew how many hours were on the ceramic I'm running now. It came with the stove in 2011 but I intermittently ran steelies as well. It's gotta have a couple full seasons, maybe closer to three. None of the chips out of the face, cracking or crumbling that I often read about here. The thing looks pristine. Like webby says, there's not that much difference between the two and they both work fine.
My screen catches most of the dust. I might take out the cat and brush it once a season..if I feel like it.
Yeah if you run it like that, closing the bypass on a hot cat without first burning a little moisture out of the fresh wood, I'd say you'd be a prime candidate for a crumbled ceramic cat. As an aside, you have a rather aggressive demeanor, haven't you?