Daniel, this guy seems like a candidate for sainthood.
Being good is good - and it feels good. It beats the other choices by a long shot. It might be hard to understand, but his helping you is probably making HIM as happy or happier than you. And it's pretty obvious that you are not a "charity" case being as you are working your butt off to survive day to day...including wood burning, etc.
I strongly suspect that someday your or members of your current family will be sitting on top of the heap and helping others in the way this guy helps you.
If we each just took care of a little bit of what is around us (shovel the walk for the older neighbor, etc.), the world would be that much better.
As I said before, any woman who would move from California to upstate NY has to do nothing more to prove her love.
Being good is good - and it feels good. It beats the other choices by a long shot. It might be hard to understand, but his helping you is probably making HIM as happy or happier than you. And it's pretty obvious that you are not a "charity" case being as you are working your butt off to survive day to day...including wood burning, etc.
I strongly suspect that someday your or members of your current family will be sitting on top of the heap and helping others in the way this guy helps you.
If we each just took care of a little bit of what is around us (shovel the walk for the older neighbor, etc.), the world would be that much better.
As I said before, any woman who would move from California to upstate NY has to do nothing more to prove her love.