I put a full stainless steel flashing skirt on our house before installing the patio. I too was told don't paint it but I didn't want to have a shiny stripe sitting above the patio so I lightly sanded the 18" x 120" strips to give them tooth, wiped down with alcohol and then painted it with black Rustoleum (Universal?) metal paint. That was 10 yrs ago. It still looks great and no sign of peeling or flaking in spite of being on the south (weather and sun) side of the house.I'm in the process of trying a different approach.
After much searching I found a junked 20gal stainless pressure tank (from a well known soft drink company) and had a couple of pipe nipples fitted. This has been set up beside the stove in the feed to my electric water heater which is just behind the wall. Over the summer I spent a bit less heating water simply by allowing my well water to warm up to room temp. It will be interesting to see the results once the stove is running.
I know the tank would be more efficient if black but was told not to paint it and powder coating is expensive.
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