lol, Stump_Branch, we go through this a lot. She usually ends up wanting me to get something better or larger or whatever. I do try to keep her warm! Love her a lot! She was just a farm kid who had practically never gone anywhere in her life before I met her. We married quite young (they said it wouldn't last) and we've since celebrated our 48th wedding anniversary. Before we married, we planned our family and most of our life. The first plan was to have a family but her job would be raising the kids. Later if she wanted to work out it would be okay. We stuck to that plan and it worked out rather well. In fact, I don't think we even had an argument between us for at least 20 years after we'd been married!
They say early marriage is getting used to each other and getting to know each other etc., etc. For us there was no getting used to each other; simply put, we wanted to be together.....always. Yes, we've had some difficult times but the good times have far outweighed the difficult ones. She lives for me and I live for her. I was told when a young married man that the best thing I could do for my children was to love their mother. I did; it worked. Whoops. I'd best stop. Sometimes I get carried away....
So the best advice I can give to a newlywed is to love each other. If you don't enjoy being together, you should not get married in the first place.
They say early marriage is getting used to each other and getting to know each other etc., etc. For us there was no getting used to each other; simply put, we wanted to be together.....always. Yes, we've had some difficult times but the good times have far outweighed the difficult ones. She lives for me and I live for her. I was told when a young married man that the best thing I could do for my children was to love their mother. I did; it worked. Whoops. I'd best stop. Sometimes I get carried away....
So the best advice I can give to a newlywed is to love each other. If you don't enjoy being together, you should not get married in the first place.