gyrfalcon said:fossil said:The actual temperature has nothing to do with it. I burn until my wife says it's getting too hot, then I throttle back. If she says she's cold, I crank up the stove. It has to do with hot flashes, I'm sure. Rick
You make big joke, ha-ha! You can have no idea how miserable hot flashes make life. (If your wife is truly having them ,telll her to try some black cohosh, widely available in health food stores and on the Web.) Been there, done that. UGH.
I apologize if I sounded flippant about it. My wife & I were both born in 1948, so we're both living through some "stuff" together. Some of the "stuff" isn't a lot of fun, but the fact that we're still living through it is frequently made more fun by the fact that we still both have a sense of humor. Believe me, I'm very sympathetic. Rick
(BTW - what did you think of the Owl book?)