DAKSY and Fingerlakes Fireplace - thanks for your input!
I adjusted the pilot up a half-turn (a visible increase, but not huge). Still extinguishes. 4 tests:
1. Pilot on for half hour (fine), then burner on Low (fine)... then both extinguish 90sec after the burner came on
2. ~the same start.... both extinguish 50sec after the burner came on
3. Pilot on for 5min, then burner on Low (fine)... then both extinguish 40sec after the burner came on
4. Pilot on for 5min, then burner on High (fine)... then both extinguish 40sec after the burner came on - vid attached (~3MB)
The pilot is stable on it's own, and for a period after the burner comes on... and then 'clunk', both shut off in an instant.
The time-to-extinguish after the burner is ignited started at 90sec, declined to 40sec.
Maybe a fault in the safety magnet or SIT valve? Or a fault in the thermocouple? (would the pilot go out so quickly?)
I'm happy to have 1 or both replaced, but preferably based on a best guess at the cause of failure..
Thanks for the expert input!... Paul
(more vids, if useful:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1O7ODxJdtSBpDpaFQgFXq4TpUNodlphtI?usp=sharing)