Let me see if I can explain. Let's say you have 1 million dollars, and your friend says he is wealthier than you because he has 3 million 'foo-dollars'. In principle a foo-dollar is just the same as a dollar, and convert 1 to 1. But when you go to spend it on something, and take it out of the bank, you have to cash in 3 foo-dollars out to get 1 dollar out of the cash machine. You argue that you and he have equal spending power....he says he is 3X wealthier than you. Is he?
Now you and he decide to be roommates, and you should each pay half the rent, $2000/mo. You insist that he pay you in dollars, so he cashes in 3000 foo dollars/mo, gets 1000 dollars and gives them to you. You add 1000 of your dollars and pay the rent with the sum to your landlord.
He now makes a flow chart, like the energy one, to describe your household budget. He draws a box labeled 'rent'. He draws the thick line going into the left side of it 3X wider than yours, so it looks like his is 3 cm wide, and yours is 1 cm wide (1 cm = $1000/mo). On the right, he shows one line 2 cm wide that flows to another box that says 'landlord'. Then to make it look legit (like the left and right are in balance) he has another 2 cm wide line coming out the right of the rent box, that he draws going off the page and labels as 'lost money'.
Bottom line, on his diagram, it looks like he is putting 3X more into the rent pot than you, and that you are both contributing to the 'lost money' problem, when that is in fact ENTIRELY his problem, bc it corresponds to money lost at his 'foo dollar' bank that has nothing to do with you.
He then shows it to your girlfriend, says 'look how much more money I make than your boyfriend' and you feel like a loser. He is in fact, an azz.