All right BronxBoy,
Now you are making a little more sense and you do have options. This forum is great and somewhat serves as
a self guided journey on pellet education with tons of support. After all, it's your investment and something you will have to live and deal with. There are experts here with about every stove you can find that was ever made. Many burning pellets before pellet stoves existed if you know what I mean.
Very experienced individuals. I have seen
some that have several decades with burning pellets. No one knew
you were an end unit with a garage for pellet storage.
Good deal! There are also many other New Yaawkers around here that will be helpful to you. Search them out.
The more specific details you give here (especially, the veteran pellet peeps) the better advice and suggestions you will get. I am a newbie also and try to give back in return for all of the help and support I have received here. Everyone does joke around a bit as you can see and that is all part of the fun. I have noticed there is a fun playful mode which is great and highly entertaining, but then the flip side (which is needed and awesome) is it can be straight up business and the love of our sport here. I have been reading here non-stop for a long time. I refer to older threads and am continuously learning so do yourself a favor and read up and use the search bar. It pays off. Don't feel bad because I am still lost, dazed, and confused to a degree.
Ask questions and research. I just got spanked and educated on pellets by a lady! They play this pellet sport very well and very educated also, so take note. Not to be taken the wrong way, just using it as an example.
Sounds like
your main problem (LOL!) is letting your wife pick out what she likes looks wise. You are not the first and will not be the last. Can you blame her? It is your job to get her involved with more than the color and look. You both can learn and make a good decision you are both happy about. Worked for me! If she understands everything then she may become more tolerant on stove choices. I can also understand her view of wanting something decent looking since you will be living with it like a well behaved pet. You have oodles of options for heating 1,100 SQ FT. Might start a thread asking the best options for heating 1,100SF.?? Or asking people here with similar SQ FT how they are doing it. Also give some details on your floor plan, 1 or 2 levels?, tons of windows?, ceiling height?, building construction?, insulation?, how tight your envelope is?, etc; Basically: List your requirements, details of what you are trying to accomplish within the given space, and such. Good Luck!