Jeez man, that's TERRIBLE! I had heard of the problems with mesh; you would think in this day and age they would be able to fix things like that.....you're probably correct, it won't get any better unless they go in there again, and they might make things worse! Sorry to hear of your problems!
I know with my "issue" in the left groin, hip and inside thigh, I also think that they could "fix" it, but I've seen several people-chiropractors, physical therapists and 2 years ago an orthopedic doctor and then her physical therapist. I could've sworn that I had a hernia, but they never found one. She did x-rays and an MRI, and they came up with it being a "sports hernia" which like I said is an umbrella term for pain in that area. I do the exercises and stretches, but it isn't as simple as just doing them and it's all sunshine and rainbows; I also feel it down there when I work, sit, do anything really-the only time that I seem to get some relief is when I sleep. Somedays it isn't too bad, sometimes it hurts like hell, exercises or not. Like you said, you learn to live with it and deal with it the best you can. I wish you luck with it, and hope that somehow the pain DOES go away for you!
Thanks Woodsman, I expect I am as healed as I will get, and have come to accept that. I was given 3 choices. Do nothing, and chance pinching off the intestine and having that part of it die, which they would have to cut out and reattach, then fix the hernia anyway. Um, no thanks.
Go in ans stitch the hole shut, but would most likely re-open. Um again, no thanks.
Go in, stuff the mesh in the hole, patch the hole, let the body grow in around & through the mesh for a strong bond. Uh, okay door #3 please.
Never told me of the issues mesh can cause, or the options they use in Europe. Told me the numbness would go away, hasn't. Told me the pain would go away, hasn't.
Told me the scare tissue would soften, hasn't.
You have the same pain issues I am experiencing. Groin, thigh, hip, inside thigh. The plus I have, is the hole it patched, and I don't have to worry bout pinching off & killing my intestine. So I guess lesser of the two evils.
Keep an eye on that stuff, and if the time comes, fully know your options. They don't always give you ALL the options, just the ones they feel like dealing with.
Stay warm