44 elite said:Actually it is I have to deal with all the lazy people who are envious and would rather think that things are just handed over. They didn't see me working my regular 50-60 hrs then building the house from 5pm -11pm every night of the week and from 6 am-10pm on the weekends. Most don't to relize all the blood sweat and tears it took to build it not to mention the years of saving and hard work to get where I am at.
I have taken on a f-them attitude I am proud of what I have done and will continue to accomplish.
Bingo. Good job 44. I know where you are coming from. By the time I was 25 I (and my wife) had built a 2500 sq ft. brand new 4BR, 3 Bath CH Colonial on 2 acres in PA. We contracted for site work, poured concrete, framing and exterior. We did all of the interior ourselves, including heat, flooring, sheetrock, finished plumbing, finished electrical, cabinetry, blah blah. It took us 9 months just working on weekends to get it liveable (we lived with family 50 miles away during construction), then we moved in and worked evenings and weekends to git 'r done. We lived there for 11 years. The neighbors were resentful of these two "kids" living in this big beautiful house on a cul-de-sac (they were all 40-50+). Screw 'em. We both worked our way through college, busted our asses to save, work and earn what we have.
Enjoy the fruits of your labor. Anyone CAN accomplish great things. Few people actually do.