Yes, I'm still talking about the wood stove. I know, that with experience, we'll get to know each other better.. But right now we are newlyweds and I want to treat her with the love and respect she deserves. Then as she learns that I have our best interests at heart, she will add more warmth to our relationship. Sometimes she rewards me from the coals; sometimes I have to give her a small gift of kindling; other times I've neglected our relationship, waited too long, and she lets me know it. I might try to sooth her with a little newspaper - which sometimes helps and other times seems to get in the way. Then I have partially burned paper and still nothing to show for my efforts. This morning I seemed to have our relationship restarted and then I put on more wood - must have been too much too soon, because she left me. I could see I was going to get the cold shoulder again if I didn't take more decisive action. I could only open the door of her heart slightly before smoke would begin to escape into the room. So I finally bit the bullet, wadded up one sheet of newspaper, opened the door , lit the paper and now our relationship has roared back to life. I could use some suggestions on how to achieve a perfect rekindling every time. Should add that the draft is excellent. I can often simply close the door, give full air and she soon rewards me with a show of flaming love.