Fantastic on the maternity leave
You are going to be there during delivery? (I'm armchair quarterbacking here.
) Have your son to be the first to meet her after she's born...let the grandparents (I'm a granddaddy) and uncles and nieces wait outside while your son goes in to be properly introduced to her. I'm tickled for ya'll. We've got two granddaughters, 4 years and 3 months...the last few weeks I've been getting into some good conversations with the 3 month old.
The last advice that my father ever gave anybody was to a nurse who happened to have a picture of her son on the back of her name tag. She was telling him how she wanted to get her son some type of toy. Daddy told her not to worry about getting him "things" that all that kids want is their parents to spend time with them...they just want their parents, that's it. I thought it was good advice.
Best wishes,
Ed