A lot of great advice. As an self employed/unemployed/self employed .........builder we do not have the nicest house,yard,car,toys...etc.This is a direct result of our priorities.I have friends that have all these, some having to move to get them, but I do not see an increase in their families happiness. Often much less. But we do have a fair amount of family time. We could be riding bike ,hiking,spending time at camp,fishing... But we do get to spend a good amount of time as a family. One thing is for certain, I will never die stressing over the occasionally unkempt yard,house or the new truck I did not buy.