The please provide the numbers to back up your claim. More than one - as you say "most".
And those numbers should be comparable, i.e. from the same testing methods.
Not some randomly grabbed numbers from the web (as in BK Ashford 50,000 BTU cord wood max, see their website - but I don't know what that means in testing methods).
Even then, I hate to say it - but you keep complaining about a stove you have. If others do so, they get shut down. The case has been made that your experience is like this. Then you gotta stop. And when advising others on here about stove sizing, just point them to the numbers that you claim to have. Rather than your personal experience that frankly does not have the statistics on here to be authoritative, given the many other folks heating with these stoves (see next paragraph).
Moreover, if you KNEW this in advance (checking the numbers you have), then you simply bought the wrong stove for you. Then why keep complaining about the stove rather than the person who made the choice?
Why keep bashing a stove that does work for many folks in far colder climates than you with similar sized homes as you that are not necessarily better insulated than yours?
Basically, I'm a bit done with the hammering "they don't provide high output", because the real life experience of many are in contradiction with the one voice on this forum that is yours.
I hope you don't ban me, but I feel this needs to be said.
And thank you for helping people on here install safe and properly performing wood stoves.