You need to find some other people as the advice they are giving you is badMixing valve? This is a closed system. Two manifold - one at each end of the loops. Flow meters to show the GPM through each loop, these are adjustable.
If I were to send 120 degrees into the begining of the loops itd cool down way too much to heat anything. Unless multiple people are wrong, the settings for radiant heating in slabs are said to be 180 at boiler coming back about 160.
Boiler is rated for 3500-4500 if I remember correctly from the manual. Should be plenty.