That furnace size and stack height is very similar to my setup, which I have had the experiance of running with both 6" and 8" chimneys. The 6", which came with the home, was too restrictive and had smoke rollout constantly. The 8" works great. Make sure your stove is tight, new ropes, doors adjusted, no leaks. I would not follow the 6" liner in 8" advice for cost reasons alone. That is a great way for the installer to tell you he has no idea what he is doing but would still like your money.
For oil or coal usage, yes you should install a baro damper per the mfr. specs. When burning wood you could close it to keep stack temp higher, but not fully necessary.
For oil or coal usage, yes you should install a baro damper per the mfr. specs. When burning wood you could close it to keep stack temp higher, but not fully necessary.