As a courtesy I've found that it's a good idea to clear with the menfolk anything you want to bring INTO the community. We have several versions of Amish, Mennonite, etc. around here and they immensly appreciate the respect you show by asking if something is okay before doing it.
Once I had one of 'em hand me a copy of their Bible, written in the low German they speak, and just because I had studied voice and sung German opera and lieder in college, I could read it. He gave me that Bible and invited me to one of their social occasions. I quietly asked this man to be my "tutor" so as to learn to "fit in" and be mindful of their sensitivities. He got a little emotional, which kinda scared me for a moment, but then he turned away from the others and we had a conversation until he recovered himself. He later explained how much acceptance by an "outsider" meant to them. I've been back to their community many times and we communicate frequently. We are as much brothers as any biological brothers could be. Very humbling experience, but I would trust these people with my life, wife or any of my children.
And as many of you have mentioned, the women do know their way around the kitchen, as my lack of trim will attest. I have learned not to mention anything in the food category (or any other category for that matter!) that I like or I will go home with loads of it or be sent tons of it by anyone of their community passing within 50 miles of our place.
They are the only "group" of people that I would encourage to move in and settle around me, if such was to occur.
Oh, and GREAT wood find, too!