We have had 2 Vermont Castings Intrepid II's now for our 2nd year. The house is only 1700 Sq ft but the master bed, bath and closet is 24x32. One is in the living room and heats the rest of the house and the other is in the bedroom. I never heard anything about one not being allowed, the dealer installed it. We typically only use it on nights in the low 30s and under though or it gets quite warm.
We've had zero issues with it and we enjoy having it. I don't find the light bothersome or anything negative.
Thank you for your post. I am considering a Vermont Castings stove in my research and am glad you are happy with yours. I spoke to our county building department this morning and wood burning stoves are allowed in bedrooms here if they are installed according to manufacturer's recommendations and have been inspected by a county inspector. Your county must have a similar law.