Based on what you have described, without some common sense compromise I don't see how you are going to burn 24/7 without going to a cat stove. You would do just as well to have a Jotul F100 or similar stove as an area heater and be happy. I do think the Oslo will be way too much stove for a 300 sq ft room with narrow doorways. Even the Castine could drive you out of the room without burning partial load and letting the stove go out. It would take a healthy fan blowing cool air from outside the living room into the there to avoid overheating.
Personally I would be addressing the hearth issues and putting in a Woodstock Keystone. That stove will allow a lower, slow burn without major creosoting issues. FWIW, we wouldn't have the T6 today if I hadn't insisted and just made the decision. My wife loved the look of the Castine and I don't disagree, but it was too small for our heating needs. Since then she has demurred and likes the T6, though she still loads it like it was an F400.
Even though our house is 6,000 square feet, when you start subtracting the closed off space like the unused third floor and basement, and the unused back rooms on the first floor, the actual downstairs is only 1,000 square feet.
It sounds like you agree that the 300 square foot living room would get cooked by the Oslo.
I'm surprised to hear you recommend the F100. I'm sure that's adequate for the living room, but would that mean giving up on heating the rest of the house?
Would the hearthstone not heat us out to much because of the soapstone?