I think you are right. I would love to have a woodstove, like yesterday! LOL! I am dreaming of being warm. My 17 yr old daughter too! She says... mom, please tell me we will have a wood stove this winter. I'm trying! Budget: $1500 give or take. Yeah, I've been told I'm a dreamer.
Oh I very much know the feeling. We heated with two gas stoves at our old house, but I wanted a wood burner in a big way. I had the Lopi on order and an install scheduled before we even closed on this place!! We had a mad rush to get the pad built in time for the install (DH did the framing and durarock, then I picked and laid and grouted the stones (it about a 4 x 7 raised pad covered in natrual lake stones).
I waffled a little on the stove, considered the Answer/Republic 1250 for a short while (mostly for price factors), but went back to the Endeavor/Republic 1750 after considering clearances and burn times, and the fact that the Answer wasn't much different than the Republic 1750 in price. I did compromise by going with the Republic instead of the Endeavor but now I prefer it, especially since it doesn't have a bypass handle sticking out the side!
What I'm getting at is, if you don't know what you want you're going to find too many options.
Make a list, like:
Needs to have x amount of burn time
Needs to have glass so we can see the fire (or doesn't, that's up to you)
Needs to be EPA approved (or doesn't, again, up to you)
Needs to take up less than x amount of space with hearth pad and clearances
Can be (or can't be) a side loader
Want it to be soapstone but x is ok too (You've seen there are a lot of different looks to stoves)
Etc, etc-you get the idea. It will probably help when you're ready to start the hunt again.
now, in your budget, you need to figure in:
stove
flue
hearth pad (depending on the stove, this might include something to add an r-value)
tools (just a basic set like poker and shovel)
ash bucket (even if just one for outside, it needs to have a tight fitting lid and sit somewhere non-combustible as ashes can contain embers that remain hot for days, even weeks)
welding/stove gloves (optional, but a very good idea)
abc fire extinguisher
wood storage
wood
fire starters, matches
Maybe a few other things I'm not thinking of. A lot of little stuff like the stove tools can probably be found here and there inexpensively if you gather them over a period of time (I've seen the tools free sometimes on CL even). It adds up though.