In your situation I would have made the exact same choice, Poindexter. I would choose Blaze King over any other brand. The Ashford is a beautiful stove. If appearance matters (and that's highly personal and very valid, I am sensitive to aesthetics also, the wrong stove in the wrong place will annoy you every day you have to look at it) then the Ashford, Sirocco and Chinook lines address that need. I think of that particular category as BK's "fashion line."
As you said, the box size (and honestly, the specs and the BTU output) aren't that different between the Princess and the Ashford/Sirocco/Chinook stoves. I doubt I'd notice a difference in heat output between the Ashford and the Princess if the Princess magically morphed into an Ashford here overnight.
We are fortunate that the Princess' utilitarian looks fit right in with our house and with our location. In fact, for some odd reason (I have no explanation for this, it just is) I prefer plainer stoves to more ornate ones. When we were considering Woodstocks, we
View attachment 219738 were looking strongly at the first iteration of the Ideal Steel line. We were willing to wait for the beta/field testing phase to be completed. We ended up going with plain Jane Princess and we couldn't be happier.
If I had to choose from the Ashford/Sirocco/Chinook line, I'd likely choose the Chinook or the Sirocco. So you can see how the plainer lines of the Princess don't bother me so much.
Another factor in choosing the Princess is that, at least at the time when we bought ours, we got the ever so slight size advantage of the Princess for $1000 less than the Ashford 30. For me that was a no brainer- give me the slightly bigger stove for $1000 less money.
As I said above, I was struggling with whether or not the King would be over the top in our situation. Now that I understand how well these stoves run on low burn, probably not- but we would have had one big daddy of a stove sitting in between our dining room and our living room. It definitely would have been more obtrusive.
If I had it to do over, I'd strongly consider adding the fans as opposed to the heat shield. I did not understand at the time that the fans acted as close clearance heat mitigation even if they weren't running. In all fairness, the shop owner could have explained that to me, but for some reason it didn't register. This is the first wood stove we've owned and for which we've been first person responsible (choosing it, having it installed, using it, maintaining it) and it's a pretty steep curve at first. Lots of front end loaded information. One absorbs as quickly as one can.
On the other hand, the heat shield was inexpensive, and I'm pretty darned happy with the box fan solution. I might follow, was it Ashful's? suggestion and order a smaller desk top/pedestal fan from Amazon just to have a slightly quieter fan in play near the living room. At any rate, the box fan was less than $20 at Walmart, we already own two of them, simple enough.